Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

Saturday, February 23, 2013

A Tale of Two: Scandal, Sex and Payouts


Sadly, when we pick up the newspaper or switch on the news, our ears and eyes frequently witness the travesty of children, who have murdered their parents, or the crazed individual, who has murdered their partner, all for the pleasure of inheriting the pot of gold, their parent’s or partner’s belongings, superannuation or large insurance payout. Of course, our emotions are mixed, but the thoughts that rush through our minds play the tune of, “How could they?” What sane person would do it, right?

Jesus tells us of the parable of two sons, who have worked hard for their father most of their lives. One of the sons, which I’ll call the ‘rebellious son’, approached his father and demanded his inheritance. The father calculated each of his two son’s inheritances and gave them their portion. The rebellious son, the following day, packed his bags in haste and departed for the ‘big smoke’.

By demanding for his inheritance, which had been set aside for him in the future, the rebellious son was essentially saying, “Father, I wish you were dead!” A grand kick in the face for a loving father, wouldn’t you agree? On one level, this replicates the travesties of our society, but on another, I guess we can see this slyly weaved in our lives.

Returning to the story, the rebellious son arrived at the ‘big smoke’ and participated in “wild living”. Not only had he wished his father were dead, but now he was dishonouring his father’s name, something prized in that time. Eventually, the rebellious son’s money ran out and a famine struck the land, causing the rebellious son to plunge into poverty. Jesus explained that the son was so hungry the he yearned to eat pig’s food. He had fallen from high society to the very bottom of the barrel.

At this point, the rebellious son’s conscience returns to him and pricks his memory of his father, whom he had proverbially punched in the face and dishonoured. “Oh what a mistake I have made”, he says to himself. After realising how horrible he was to his father, the rebellious son returns to him and fearfully pleads for mercy. The father accepts his son back and throws a huge party to celebrate.

This story can be found in the Gospel of Luke, chapter 15, verses 11 through 32. We pause for a moment to soak up the sheer loving mercy of the father. How cruel and evil the son was to abandon and dishonour his father and waste all his inheritance.  Yet, the father forgives him. Being the bible and a story of Jesus’, we know the son is us and the father is God, who accepts us back through Jesus’ cross. But, it would be a grave mistake to stop reading now, for the punch line is still yet to come.

Remember, there were two sons? The rebellious son, who returned to his father, and there was the, we’ll call, the ‘faithful son’. While the party raged into the night, the ‘faithful son’ heard the commotion in the house and went to inspect. Upon arrival, he found his stupid brother being held high by his father. This is the moment where we take a glimpse into the ‘faithful sons’ heart. This is the crunch point; the point Jesus is trying to emphasise.

The ‘faithful son’ is repulsed and violently rejects the situation. He pulls his father to the side, a dishonouring thing to do in that time, and proceeds to tell his father what to do. He reasons with his father, “I worked for you like a slave, I always obeyed you”, and so on. The father responded, “Look, your brother is back!” But the ‘faithful son’ didn’t care. His eyes were on the wealth; “You took the fattened calf for him and served it”, a big and expensive thing in that time. The ‘faithful son’ wasn’t on-board with his father. Why?

At first reading, it seems as though the ‘rebellious son’ is the only one using his father for his wealth, but after his return and the joyous celebration that ensues, it is revealed that the ‘faithful son’ is no different. He too, sees his father as an opportunity for wealth and fame. “Where was my fattened calf?” asked the ‘faithful son’. “I’ve worked hard for you; where’s my payment”. Like his brother earlier in the story, he is essentially saying where is my money? He wasn’t working hard because he loved his father, but rather, was working simply to gain wealth and fame. But what was it that the father desired? He desired that his two sons love him.

Where do you sit with God? He created you, sustains you and provides for you. He, like the father in the story, loves you and desires to have a relationship with you. Possibly, you, like the ‘faithful son’, haven’t killed anyone or stolen anything, yet you use God for the treasures of his creation. Perhaps, you store up your God given money and enjoy the God given relationships given you by God. Yet, you never turn to listen or follow him.

Some may say now, I follow God in my own way. But, so did both sons in the story. God created us, yet we reject him. We live our lives without honouring God. This is sin. Like the father in the story, God yearns to have a relationship with you. He loves you so much that he sacrificed himself on the cross to pay for all of your rejection.

There are so many travesties in the news, but there is a greater travesty at play today, the travesty that you and I are a part of, the rejection and ‘murder’ of our Father and creator, God. Turn now, and follow his Son Jesus Christ. See your spiritual poverty and return to your loving Father, who waits for you with open arms.

If you have questions, I would love to try to answer them and guide you to Jesus Christ.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Resource Review: The Cross of Christ

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Last month, we looked at the good old celebration of Valentine’s Day and explored its links to Christianity. Christian’s firmly believe that God is love and that he clearly demonstrated his love by sacrificing his life as a human (Jesus Christ) by dying on a cross for our rebellion. John Stott, who is a world renowned theologian and scholar, writes very pervasively on the implications of Jesus death on the cross. I strongly recommend this book to all audiences, Christian and not.

The universal symbol of the Christian faith is neither a crib nor a manger, but a gruesome cross. Yet many people are unclear about its meaning, and cannot understand why Christ had to die.

In this magisterial and best selling book, John Stott explains the significance of Christ's cross and answers the objections commonly brought against biblical teaching on the atonement.

John Stott's modern classic is as sharp and pertinent as ever it was. It combines an excellent biblical exposition, and a characteristically thoughtful study of Christian belief, with a searching call to the church to live under the cross.

IVP Book, 448 pages
Price: Approx. $10.95 (Koorong)
Price: Approx. $17 (Amazon)

Monday, February 14, 2011

What the (3): Love is in the Air!

This is a bit of a gear shift from talking about Psychology and Evolution but I think that it is necessary to highlight the relationship between Christianity and Valentine’s Day. Did you know that Valentine's Day is about 1 500 years old? This is the day where every man or woman reaches for the chocolates and roses to give to their loved one.

It should be no surprise that Christians instigated a day like this as the bible describes our Trinitarian God (Father, Son and Holy Spirit) as love. There are tons of passages in the bible that explain that God is love, who loves us exhaustively (Psalm 5:7, 11; 17:7; 103:11; 108:4; John 3:16; 15:9, 12-13; 1 John 4:9-12, 16 – I could go on but I found way to many). This love is truely demonstrated to us in that even though we have disobeyed God, he came to earth as the man Jesus to rescue us from all of our rebellion.

The Martyrs

In the first and second centuries, Christians that lived in the Roman Empire experienced mass persecution for following Jesus as the one and only God. The accounts from these Christians are horrific and stand testament to the un-shack ability of the trust given them by Jesus.

A few of these Christians, whom were murdered went by the name of Valentine. Some of these men were named Saints by the Catholic Church and a day was commemorated in memory of their martyrdom.

Valentines Day

Today, Valentines is celebrated to share the love and affection with your spouse or partner. This custom arose in the Middle Ages after the Catholic Church deleted “Valentines Day” from the calendar. Either way, it is a nice day to spend romantically with your spouse.

The love that has been given us, ultimately is a reflection of the God whom created all things. Why not on this day, pick up a bible and have a read about the God who is, and who created love and finally demonstrated his love for us 2000 years ago on the cross!

Friday, December 17, 2010

Resource Review: Death by Love

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Most men don’t like to talk about, but really need it. Women watch TV series and movies about it, but can’t define it. What is love? The bible tells us that God demonstrated his love for us by dying on the cross to rescue you and I from our rebellion and death (see Life Part 5).

This gospel (good news) has implications for our lives today and in this book, Mark Driscoll expertly discusses how Jesus death in our place transforms lives. Death by Love is a great read, which I thoroughly enjoyed and recommend – plus it is a real eye opener! The book is a bunch of letters Driscoll sent to members of his congregation, who were struggling with:
* Porn additions,
* Adultery,
* Self righteousness,
* The memory of terrible actions of the past (rape etc),
* Death and cancer,
* Hate,
* How to know God,
* Hell,
* Demonic attack.

Real people. Real sin. Transformed lives. A compilation of heartfelt letters written from a pastor to his people that explains Jesus' work on the cross.

Death by Love is a unique book on the cross of Jesus Christ. While many books debate the finer points of the doctrine of the atonement, what is often lost are the real-life implications of Jesus' death on the cross for those who have sinned and have been sinned against. Written in the form of pastoral letters, Death by Love outlines the twelve primary effects of Jesus' death on the cross and connects each to the life of a different individual.

Driscoll, one of America's most influential pastors, and Breshears, a respected theologian, help readers understand, appreciate, and trust in Jesus' work on the cross in a way that will transform their lives. Both deeply theological and intensely practical, this book shows how everyone can find hope through the death of Jesus Christ.

Hardback, 256 pages
Price: Approx. $22.95

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Life (5): You Deserve to be Loved!

Can you guess where these love quotes come from:
* "It doesn't matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other".
- Good Will Hunting
* Love actually is all around us.
- Hugh Grant, Love Actually
* "Promise me you'll survive. That you won't give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless". 
- Titanic
* "Death can not stop true love, it can only delay it for a little while."
- The Princess Bride
*"I loved her so much I had to kill her"
- Guns and Roses

Love is all around

Love is one of those things, from a young age we think we have it for someone and the oldies around us tell us that we don’t know what we are talking about. But, what is love? We all agree that it is a feeling, a strong emotion that drives us. Some of us even go as far as to say that love is an action, which speaks louder than any word could describe! We all agree that love is so important. It is an essential ingredient in our society.

I think a good expression of this is found in our families. Parents, on the whole, demonstrate love for their children. Feeding, washing, clothing, making our beds, putting up with our rubbish, reading us stories and the list goes on. The events that stick out in our mind as an act of true selfless love is when a parent puts themselves in harm’s way to rescue their child:

September 2010 – Brian Wood was forced to brake when an out-of-control SUV came hurtling towards him in an inevitable head-on collision in Whidbey Island, Washington State. He swerved his car so that he would take the brunt of the collision, sparing his wife, who was pregnant with their first baby. Brian sadly died, while his wife and unborn child lived.

The father-to-be gave his own life to save his wife and unborn child when he swerved his car to take the impact of a fatal head-on collision.

His shattered wife stated 'I am not going to waste the gift he gave us'.

This, without a shadow of doubt sticks out in my mind as a pure act of love, don’t you think? With selfless acts like this, you have to say that love is all around us, isn’t it?

What is love?

We are a loving society aren’t we? How about these love quotes from the ultimate lovers of this generation who influence the our families:
* He who loves 50 people will have 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes! Budda
* My goal was to show true love between a man and a woman. Hugh Hefner
* I will always love Simone, I will make her my other priority (and I guess Liz Hurley would have to be the other half!). Shane Warne

I picked these blokes because Budda has been considered one of the world’s most influential teachers, Hugh Hefner’s porn industry is statistically the Western world’s favourite past time and Warnie is considered one of Australia’s favourite sons. Add to that statistics which demonstrate an alarming increase in relationship breakdowns, domestic violence and child abuse.

We all hold families and love as an important facet of our society but let’s be honest with each other, do we really understand what love is? Looking at the voices of our culture, my answer is no, because our society today looks for answers in the wrong place.

Jesus, our solution

I know this will hit some people really hard, as the majority of my own extended family has experienced the pain of relationship breakdown. Though, more and more, I am convinced that the answer to this problem is not better counselling or therapy, but we need what the bible calls a new heart.

The bible is essentially about Jesus, and it explains that Jesus is God, who created the universe to be in a loving relationship with him (I’ll point out there is more to this but God didn’t create us because he was lonely but because he is a loving God). But our relationship with God has been broken because of our rebellion. This separation from God is corroding all of our society because we live opposed to God and will one day face judgement.

So what is love? Jesus said “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends”(John 15:13). Love is an emotion that causes and drives us to act. Love is selfless and Jesus, who is God says that he loves us and he proves this by dying on the cross for our rebellion! Jesus does for us what Brian Wood did for his wife, and what did his wife say in response? We can’t and we won’t experience true love until we meet the inventor of love, Jesus Christ. Our lives, families and society are dying and Jesus, out of love died to rescue us from this corrosion.

You don’t have to do anything but trust Jesus, as it is written in the bible:

For our sake God made Jesus to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become part of God’s family (2 Corinthians 5:21)

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Reaching Out

I was recently moved by a Christian brothers post on a forum. I have placed his post below, enjoy:

"For if a man comes into your assembly with a gold ring and dressed in fine clothes, and there also comes in a poor man in dirty clothes and you pay special attention to the one who is wearing the fine clothes, and say, 'You sit here in a good place,' and you say to the poor man, 'You stand over there, or sit down by my footstool,' have you not made distinctions among yourselves, and become judges with evil motives?" (James 2:2-4).


Jesus broke a lot of taboos while He walked this earth. One huge cultural faux pas was when He spoke with the woman at the well. In this single act, Jesus actually broke three taboos:
1. He traveled into Samaritan territory.
2. He spoke to a woman in public.
3. He interacted with a woman who had a "reputation."

But the fact is, Jesus was always far more concerned with reaching out to those in need than in dodging man-made social taboos.

Let me ask you a question. Are you willing to reach out to those who are different from you, culturally, socially, and morally? Students, are you willing to reach out to that person who's always left out, maybe a classmate who's a bit on the fringe? Adults, are you willing to reach out to those folks at the office that are different, maybe the office hell-raiser or the known homosexual, or heaven forbid, the conservative Democrat or liberal Republican? Ladies, will you befriend that neighbor who others shun because of rumors about how she judges others? Are you willing to reach out? Jesus certainly did. He broke one social taboo after another so that He could reach out to people in need.

If you call yourself a Christian, are you willing to be like Jesus? If you're not, you might want to look at His life - you'll be surprised at how much you'll like Him.

Thanks David

Monday, June 14, 2010

Resource Review: Vintage Church


Highly respected theologians Mark Driscoll and Gerry Breshears have produced a great book for those who are interested in finding out what scripture has to say about church. I have found this book quite funny as is Driscoll’s style, very informative and easy to read. Great follow on read from Christians Beleve (5).

This book from the popular Re: Lit series picks up where Vintage Jesus leaves off, beginning with a focus on the person and work of Jesus and then exploring the confessional, experiential, and missional aspects of his church. It defines a biblical church as one that properly balances the eternal truths of Scripture - church leadership, preaching, baptism, communion, and more - with timely, relevant methods designed to engage the culture, such as multi-campus churches and the latest forms of technology, to reach people with the gospel. While Vintage Church is helpful for pastors and church leaders, it is the kind of book you could hand to someone who has questions about ecclesiology but finds the very term ecclesiology intimidating. The authors put forth twelve practical questions about church doctrine and answer them in clear, biblical terms.

256 pages, from Re: Lit
Price: Approx. $24.95

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Love: The Essential Ingredient


For the past two weeks, I have been reading Romans. I have found Romans 12:9-10, "Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. Love one another with brotherly affection", very convicting. Rich, Christ centred fellowship and brotherly love is so essential to our walk with Christ, and emotionally as people. Jesus died to join us with God and each other in fellowship (1 John 1).

When sin entered into creation (Genesis 3) not only was Adam and Eve's relationship with God severed, but also their relationship with each other was severed (Genesis 3:7). Sin destroys love and relationshipships. So destructive is sin, that all of humankind turned from being in perfect relationship with each other and with God, to conflict and death as evident with Cain and Abel (Genesis 4). Demonstrations of this in our culture are seen in divorce, domestic violence, crime etc.

As children born again through the atoning work of Christ, we (as the church) are being regenerated back into the image first intended by God. The bible often uses the phrase 'fellowship with one another' to speak of relationship. The Greek word for fellowship basically means a deep relationship / participation in each others life. This rich fellowship is made possible by God the Holy Spirit, drawing us together to the point that we may confess our sins and be cleansed by Jesus (1 John 1:9), and therefore grow in love for both God and one another.

It is evident that throughout Romans the church in Rome was experiencing division inregard to heap of issues (i.e. food, special days etc). Paul, so clearly presents to the church in Rome the answer to the division is the gospel, demonstrating to them that they no longer live separated by sin, but rather live by the Spirit who unifies them under Jesus. We too must head this teaching as we strive to have fellowship with God and each other.

Love is the essential ingredient for rich fellowship, which is only made possible through Jesus.

So I leave you with these questions:

* First of all, is Jesus your Lord and Saviour?

* Secondly, do you engage in rich fellowship?